i mean the first time she had a human with her was with her grandpa in which he died from getting shot

next was with john on prospit, but instead of him dying jade's (dreamself) died. though its really that SHE met john first, but her dreamself died when he woke up. which is ironic

third time was with dave on LOFAF when jack noir caused the bullets jade was shooting at him to be redirected to dave (callback to when her grandpa died; which was from a bullet redirect from her. (though her grandpa dying was because tavros did that weird animal physic thing to control bec, causing the bullet to be redirected to her grandpa) which is pretty sad)

and if were using the retcon as another example, jade said that all the planets exploded (with john and davesprite on them) being the fourth time that people she met would die

she suffers a lot really... : [