This is my Cousin speaking.

Abby is my dead name. Which only certain people can call me. (Certain family members, @Kai_dragon_boi , and @CoffeeTheif_HEHE .)

Saying this genuinely made me angry because I told her I heavily hated my dead name and preferred Jacob. And just because I wear a bra and shit doesn't mean I am NOT a transmasc person. I wear it because I literally can't push them down.

I told her about the personal permission. But I wouldn't have been upset about that if she had just asked if I WAS OKAY with it. Not "if that's alright" like. How are you going to explain to your three year old daughter cousin Jacob is "Abby" now?