You can't choose if you are asexual.

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In a battle with a aphobic person, they said I either

A. read it in an article ( I didn't like it but I didn't even know other people felt that way too )

B. I did it because I probably have a "tiny 3 cm penis" ( I didn't even know how to, uh, you know I just hated the touchy-feely stuff. I know now and still am ace. )

C. Wanted to "go along with the trends" ( read my response to A )
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Also, being ace or aromantic doesn't mean you're gay. People often get confused when I say I'm ace and straight. It's simple. I only like the opposite gender, but don't feel any sexual attraction to them.

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Another thing is, being ace doesn't mean you don't think someone is pretty.