1:While it is true that he made that promise when his daughter was a little Timmy he later remade that promise at the end of the 2nd episode of the 1st f*cking season

,,Are you gonna run of with him,and leave me behind?Gi where i can't find you?"

,,What?No no,i will never do that,never."

As far as the show is concerned,this happened recently,so unless his memory is utter horsesh!t or he has a comical amount of work to do he should be able to remember it.

2:Why didn't he divorce her then?What was stopping them from just ending it the moment the damn egg hatched?You can't say it was for the kid because watching your parents fight 24/7 is gonna screw up the kid mentally,and as far as Stolas knows Stella is treating Octavia no differently then she is treating him,not to mention wtf is the point of the mother if she doesn't show her love for the kid?

3:Fair enough, i mean it's not like he just walked into the court house,said ,,I did it" without knowing what crime Blitz was being accused off,and waited for himself to be executed,right?I mean that would be stupid and insane I mean who does that?I mean surely he tried to shift the blame or defent his Impish Little Plaything since he is considered the victim in the case?