Reasons why I allow/don't allow these:
Different species/gender: It ticks me off when people get these wrong.
In skimpy outfits: As long the characters aren't children under 18 (I ain't saying minor, what if I call an adult a major/jk)
Being romantic: ONLY FOR THE CANON COUPLES! (e.g Taciturn x Debbie and Cooper x Motti when I release their ref sheets.)
Smoking: I don't promote lung-killing devices.
Sad/crying: It's okay for them to be sad.
Candy gore: I don't know what this is, but judging the name, I think it's ok.
Uncanon ships: I hate seeing ships like this just because 2 characters know each other. That doesn't mean they're dating jeez/sorry but serious on this bit :()
Different body type: I don't see a problem unless it's making a non-skinny character skinny.
With food: My characters need food to live, y'know.
With drugs: Stop it, get some help.
With alcohol: The majority of my characters dislike alcoholic drinks.
With guns: Pew pew
Blood and Gore: I am a gore artist myself.
In violent scenes: I enjoy seeing my characters fight.
Anything controversial (like NSFW and other sexual stuff): No
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