I'm fed up with staying silent with my "friends." I'm fed up with considering someone important, giving them my time and patience, only to find out they're just a pastime or a second choice. I usually ignore it when someone excludes me or treats me like dirt, but with this one person, it's getting tiresome. We've already tried talking to her, but she won't listen. What's the point of worrying about someone who won't listen to their own friends? I don't want her to end up like my old group, where practically everyone talked badly about each other and still remained friends. This person often talks badly about us to her boyfriend. Which is hurtful, considering we're supposed to be her friends, right? Or is it just her way of distracting herself/not being alone at school? We love her very much, I'm sure of that. But we're still her second choice. I'm not saying it's wrong to prefer your boyfriend to your friends, but please, let her realize what kind of person that guy is. He's of legal age. He's an adult. Help! She says I'm her best friend when it suits her, which is frustrating. I don't like to talk badly about my friends, but knowing she does it with her group of friends from another school, well, okay, fine. I left my old group so they would stop talking badly about me, not so the person who made me leave it would do the same. Shit. We tried talking to her a few days ago, and she apologized for everything! But after a few minutes, she messaged us saying we were wrong. Okay, I understand, we won't worry about you anymore. I don't mind posting this stuff here, especially since I'll delete it. But seriously, what's wrong with people? If you don't like something, say so! Don't hide it or go around saying things behind that person's back. I'm fed up with those kinds of people, especially considering I hung out with them almost all through high school until I finally had enough and left. Did it hurt to leave? Yes, of course. And I don't want that to happen again.