Edit: initially wrote this when I was really tired and I fixed a mistake

(this post most likely is going to have some comment under it coming from one of HIS friends)

I've been not publicly discussing a situation online recently (there was posts talking about the situation but I deleted them cuz I didn't want to get a bunch of people involved and draw unessicary attention since it makes it go on for longer)

But the thing has been negatively affecting me in general and my proformance in school so I thought about venting about it in one big post

For anyone who isn't educated, I became friends with this one user, and sometime in late 2024 I asked him if he wanted to date me (worst decision of my life) and he said yes

Now that I look back, throughout the relationship he felt very.... Obsessive towards me, one time they were briefly trans but then went back when he realised I didn't really care (not in the bad way of course) there's other examples but I dont remember really (nvm I remember he told me he'd apparently without my knowledge kissed an irl picture of me I sent him. It was just a selfie of me in a onesie doing a thumbs up)

I think due to his obsessive behaviour, he probably forced himself into doing stuff when I was just wondering if he was ok with it (I'm just guessing, take this with a grain of salt)

Btw the thingy stuff was true, I saw some weird stuff on YouTube when I was like 5 or 6. Another thing, That stuff only happened some time in the early-ish part of the relationship from what I remember despite him gaslighting and saying I did it in may

Flash forward sometime after we broke up (and I was friend zoned). He sent me a message saying that he had ai extended my profile picture (doing that is putting it in the ai database) so I was like "wtf, dont do that shit without my knowledge" he then overreacted and blocked me.

And then I think he went to one of my old friends (who hates me and has delt with 2 actual groomers in the past) and tells them that I groomed him

And then they proceed to give him my discord password and email and trash my account. Cut back to me in my room confused as fuck about what was happening

Then I made this post

Sortly after, the power cut off from my house for like an hour (I was so paranoid and stressed that I started breaking down in tears, I had no goddamn clue what was happening and why)

And then i learnt more about it

Him and his friends won't leave me alone and I'm constantly feeling like shit.

after I come home from school, I spend the day practically doing nothing and going to bed feeling empty