can we normalise not trying to like fix homophobes or bad people in general?

like i do believe in change, i dont think anyone is inherently a bad person; i used to be homophobic when i was in denial abt being trans and all that, but honestly that wasnt anyone elses problem. especially since letting some homophobic prick be near possible vulnerable people (or yourself if you're vulnerable) aint really a great idea.

some people just.. y'know, arent savable, because they dont wanna change. even if you're homophobic for like, idk, trauma or something idk, i honestly do not care brotato. sucks that whatever that was happened but my dad lowkey abused me like mad, abused my mum, and i stopped being homophobic when i realised that its honestly just easier to support than to hate (because at the time, wasnt sure why i was homophobic other than "not normal" mindset, wasnt very firm abt it).

if you finna be homophobic, good for you my guy, im probably gonna send you a picture of men kissing and then block you but honestly broski that isnt my problem

if you can change? good for you, great even- just do it away from me, preferably where i cant see you "accidentally" calling gay people the f slur.

anyway be yourselves you queer kings, queens, everything between.

you are supported, even if it doesnt feel like it right now, i promise you just need to look in the right places and you'll find people who don't give a fuck about your sexuality, gender, or race