Recently, some people have drawn attention to the fact that I've listed my preference for they/he pronouns. I haven't actually explained it publicly, but considering we're entering Pride Month, I might as well explain it!
Short story, I'm genderfluid, nonbinary. This isn't me "coming out", because this isn't information I've had any issue with sharing publicly, I just haven't gotten around to it, so I do ask that you don't say that I have "come out".
To go more into detail, around July of last year, I began questioning my gender upon thinking about the possibility of me being nonbinary. It was quite a stressful time thinking about it, and I must give my gratitude to @worldtrademark , as they really helped me through those times.
Ultimately, I came to my own conclusion that I was both genderfluid and nonbinary. It occurred to me that my own perception of my gender wasn't inconsistent because of my uncertainty, but rather because it naturally shifted from day-to-day.
While I am accepting of he/him pronouns, I do prefer they/them. That generally reflects how I do lean more towards gender-neutral than male. I do also accept she/her pronouns, but I probably won't use them personally.
That's basically it. Thanks for reading through this! If you have any questions for me about this, I'm more than happy to answer!
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