Google is free ffs, bloody hell. Like one search.

Literally one (Not counting the stupid AI overview because it's wrong way to fucking often.)

(If you want more context for what that said, https://medicine.yale.edu/news-article/what-do-we-mean-by-sex-and-gender/)

(stinky shortened one for the text below>:C: TL;DR: People arguing that "they/them" isn't a singular pronoun for grammar reasons often make grammar mistakes themselves. It's commonly used in daily language, making their argument inconsistent and pointless.)

Also, why- why do people care about they/them not being ''proper pronons'' because they.. aren't singular, and they want to use ''proper grammar'.. Like mate, if you're gonna argue using proper grammar, you can't just- not use proper grammar when you type or write. Like imagine me, writing like this- saying you HAVE to use proper grammar? I don't re-read the stuff I write on gamejolt, because I do this for fun- my own enjoyment, not my English exams/projects (which, admittedly, I also enjoy. I can quite easily ramble if you couldn't tell lmao). That'd be some of the most braindead shit on earth.

Like my guy, my GUY, you just mixed 'your' and 'you're' and you're arguing they/them not being singular pronouns? I mean I se it accidently out of habit DAILY, not even trying to be inclusive, because it's day-to-day language. It's like arguing that you can't call yourself nouns because they can also indentify objects or places. Just for example, I'm gonna use the Eiffel Tower. 'The Eiffel Tower fucking sucks, I want to cause another revolution and burn down the pathetic strucuture'- but if we can't call people nouns (LIke with Cis people getting pissy over being called cis) then surely you've got problems with that, besides the French slander, but it's France. (Fuck you Darcky btw <333)

(a word (other than a pronoun) used to identify any of a class of people, places, or things (common noun), or to name a particular one of these (proper noun).

"converting adjectives to nouns has always been common in English")

Anyway, yeah lil' rant, but I thought it should be more normalised to know.

EXTRA STUFF BELOW THIS BIT, NOT A PART OF THE MAIN TOPIC IN THE TITLE.

Oh, and btw, random extra thing-

(Another TL;DR: Trans women don’t transition just to access bathrooms. Predators will attack regardless. Banning them forces trans men into women’s spaces, and cis predators could exploit the rules more easily. Gender-nonconforming individuals would also be unfairly targeted.)

The whole 'trans women only say that because they want to get into the women's bathroom and be a rapist' is so fucking stupid. So, people are faking years of therapy, discrimination, counselling and discussing their gender with dozens of therapists and counsellers to get HRT at 18 are rapists? Mate, if someone's gonna SA you, I hate to break it to you, they're gonna just SA you.

Along with that (Jamie said it once) if you make Trans Women go into bathrooms, then you're forcing Trans Men into women's bathrooms. You know, the opposite of what you wanted? Not to mention the fact it is ALOT easier for a cis-rapist (Not that I can find ANY actual case of this happening, this is an example!) wanted to do something, it is alot easier to say 'nah this is the right bathroom, I'm a trans guy' than a trans woman, because alot of Trans Guys pass REALLY well.
Also, what about gender-nonconfirming people??? Like are they gonna have a stroke if they see a tomboy or femboy go into the female and male restrooms respectively???