'Gay', or 'Homosexual' is defined as having a romantic or sexual attraction to other men, or in the case of women, having a sexual or romantic attraction to other women. This means if you are purely kissing your mates for bonding- similarly to how you may hug your friends- is not gay. The only thing that would make it gay would be if you were to be attracted to said friend.

Along with that, you could even say that sexual acts could be straight, if you had no real attraction & only cared about the pleasure, but that could be a stretch. As such, if you are doing it platonically- similarly to how some cuddle for comfort, or bonding, and not real attraction, it is entirely straight.

gay

/ɡeɪ/

adjective

1.

sexually or romantically attracted to people of one's own sex (used especially of a man).

This does not cover having a lack of romantic or sexual attraction, nor the acts you may do with that person. If you are to do it for pure comfort, bonding, affection, and/or pleasure it is NOT gay.

Unless you find them hot or something, then that's gay as fuck and lowkey? Based. Anyway, have some queer flags.

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