its really interesting looking back at the first things i posted on this account, one of my first posts was me questioning my gender, eventually i came to a conclusion, i thought i was trans fem and pan and that went on for quite a long time, i think that lasted from 2021 to 2024 but back in summer i started questioning my sextuallity as i slowly realized that i was ace and then i started questioning my gender because i realized that i prefer they them pronouns, over the span of the next few weeks i kept questioning my gender and sexuality, and here we are 2025 i realized i was aro ace and ive never been happier ive herd a lot of aro ac people also thought that they were pan so thats pretty intertwisting , and when it comes to my gender well.....ill be honest i don't really think i want a gender, I've done a bit of research and i don't really relate to any specific gender nothing really clicked for me and i don't really want to have a gender/ give myself a gender, so personally i prefer just not defying my gender, but i guess you could call me gender queer and i guess that makes sense but personally i don't really feel like defining myself as anything but i guess genderqueer also makes sense, also i use any-pronouns now so yea, 2020 to 2023 where really bad times for me, i was dealing with a lot of mental health problems but 2024 started out in the same way but eventually got a lot better by its end, and from what i can tell 2025 will be the best year out of all of them by far,