You are still transgender if you are not dysphoric or do not transition
You are still queer if you're "only" asexual or aromantic
You are still gay/a lesbian if you find a person of the opposite gender attractive
You are still non binary if you look like your gender assigned at birth
You are still bisexual even if you're with someone of the opposite gender
You are still valid if you identify with a xenogender
You are still valid if you don't understand your own community or labels
You are still transgender if you like to dress like your previous gender
You are still valid if you can't figure out what you are
You are still valid if you have internalized homophobia/transphobia, just work on that

You are still loved if you are queer